Isihogo Esiluhlaza - Ungahlala Kanjani Uphila
Uyonga Kanjani Esihogweni Esiluhlaza Uzithola uwedwa ehlathini, ungenakho ukudla noma izinto zokusebenza. Umsebenzi wakho uwukuphila futhi ufinyelele abantu.
Kepha njengoba isikhathi sihamba, isizungu siqala ukufaka ingcindezi eyengeziwe hhayi emzimbeni wakhe kuphela, kepha nakwi-psyche yakhe, futhi impi yakhe yokuphila iphenduka impi yokulwa. Koze kube nini ungamelana wedwa ebusweni obungaziwa?
Awutholi usizo oluvela ngaphandle. Konke onakho yinhloko yakho nezandla zakho. Kufanele ufunde amasu okusinda lapho uhamba, wakhe izindawo zokukhosela, namathuluzi wobuciko nezikhali zokuzingela nokuzivikela. Ehlathini, impilo yakho ihlala isongelwa njalo: nganoma yisiphi isikhathi, izilwane zasendle nezifo ezishisayo zingakubulala. Akugcini lapho, ngisho ne-psyche yakho iba yisitha: kufanele ulwe nezicupho zengqondo yakho kanye nokwesaba okukhula njengamakhowe ebumnyameni behlathi.
Ngihlala kanjani ngiphila esihogweni esiluhlaza?
Okokuqala sidinga ukwakha noma iyiphi indawo yokuhlala, isibonelo, itende noma isisitho selanga phezu kwazo encwadini ithi zikuvumela ukuthi ugcine umdlalo, ukwakha itende udinga ukukhetha iphrojekthi encwadini uyibeke phezu emhlabathini kunoma iyiphi indawo ekahle phansi sizodinga izinto zokwakha amaqabunga esundu, uma sine-natatalkali zonke izinto ezidingekayo futhi siqedile ukwakha itende. Sithola isithonjana esingalala kuso, kodwa isithonjana sokugcina siphezulu, vele uphakamise ikhanda lakho ngaphezu kwetende.
Indawo yokukhosela izokuvumela ukuthi ulale futhi ulondoloze umdlalo. Kubalulekile kunoma yisiphi isigaba somdlalo, ngakho-ke into yokuqala okufanele uyenze ukudala indawo yokukhosela elula. Indawo yokukhosela yenziwa ngalezi zinsiza ezilandelayo: izinti eziyisi-8, izinti ezinde ezi-3, amahlamvu esundu angu-13, nentambo eyodwa. Ungaqala ukwakha indawo yakho yokukhosela kusukela osukwini lokuqala lomdlalo.
Yilokho kuphela okudingeka ukwazi mayelana nendlela yokuphila esihogweni esiluhlaza. Uma kukhona okunye, zizwe ukhululekile ukushiya amazwana ngezansi.